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Weather happens. We are not God. We cannot control the elements. But what we can control is how we respond to it.

If the thought of setting a 4:00 AM alarm makes you cringe, stick with me. Here is why braving the early wake-up call will be the best decision you make for your wedding day.

Mercury retrograde - at its baseline understanding - is to expect something to go wrong. It’s a time where communication is fuzzy, technology acts up, and your ex decides they must text you back. This isn’t exactly the energy you want on your wedding day, but sometimes that venue only has one day open and it is smack dab during mercury retrograde. Here’s all you need to know about getting married during mercury retrograde.

Aloha lovebirds! Summer (for those of you on the mainland - it’s summer all year long here in Paradise) started off with an absolute whirlwind of “I do’s” and magically heartfelt moments here on Oahu. It was a true joy to witness so many incredible love stories unfold and I wanted to share a little peek behind the scenes into some of the wonderful couples I had the pleasure of marrying in June.

Let’s add AI to your toolkit and wield it in a powerful (and smart!) way. I’ll give you 3 ways you can use AI as your secret weapon for heartfelt and personalized wedding vows that are still authentically you.

Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, a cherished moment to celebrate your love amidst the stunning backdrop of Oahu. As you envision exchanging vows and embarking on your marital journey, consider the pivotal role of your Oahu wedding officiant. It's more than just a formality; it's the heart of your ceremony.

From Germany and planning a wedding in Oahu? Bring your traditions with you! This wasn’t my first German wedding - I’ve officiated about a dozen German couples in Oahu. But this was my first time witnessing these three captivating German Wedding traditions - and let me tell you with every new item that came out I got more and more excited! These traditions were a fascinating glimpse into German traditions and it was beautiful to witness german culture them on the shores of Oa

Crouching Lion is one of my favorite places on the island. Nowhere else will you get such a stunning view as a backdrop for your love story. For the couple that has bonded over their shared love of adventure - there is nothing more romantic than this short (but steep) incline to one of the most beautiful spots in the world. While most people aren’t woefully underprepared for the physical challenge there could be more tips and tricks out there to make your elopement at Crouchi

In the tradition of giving a lei, the type and how you wear the lei matters. In this blog post, we’ll explore why closed leis are avoided during pregnancy and how to adorn yourself with tropical florals in a safe and culturally sensitive manner that honors the traditions of Hawaii.

Oahu is a classic destination wedding spot for couples around the world - and rightfully so! We have all the makings of a dream wedding: lush jungles, great climate, long sandy beaches, and an air of serenity. If you are thinking about having your destination wedding in Hawaii, here is some inspiration from Vogue’s December 20, 2023 article, by Elise Taylor, and how it can apply to your Hawaiian Dream Wedding.

Let’s Break It Down the financial AND emotional cost involved in eloping in Hawaii.

Tomato (toh-may-toh) vs. Tomato (toe-mah-toe) Unraveling the difference between the titles of one who performs marriages from religious officials to the modern day officiant/celebrant - it's more than just what we call ourselves that has come a long way.

The Pros and Cons of a Waikiki Wedding Location.

Real life story of a German couple who came to the shores of Oahu to say I do.

A real life example of a spontaneous elopement.